
This past Saturday was the big day – my friends Jessica and Joseph got married. That in itself is big enough news, but I also had the privilege and honor of documenting the ceremony and reception. This would be my first wedding as the official ‘photographer’ and it very well could be my last! More on that to follow.
Anyone who knows me understands that I’m a prepare for the worst and hope for the best kind of guy. I spent a lot of time leading up to the wedding trying different techniques, ordering special diffusers, and generally making myself a nervous wreck leading up to Saturday. Photographing someone’s wedding is a serious responsibility and I would like to think that I treated it as such. There’s no chance for a do-over so you’ve got to get it right the first time.
My wife and I arrived at the location about three hours before the ceremony to set up and take some test shots of different locations and rooms so I would have a baseline from which to work. Going in to the event I was optimistically hoping to be able to shoot at f/5.6 at a shutter speed in the neighborhood of 1/125s at an ISO of no more than 800 (but I was secretly hoping to be able to shoot at an ISO of 400). After I set up a couple of softboxes and remotes, I fired off a couple of shots just to get an ambient reading on the available light. Houston, we have a problem. I realized I would be lucky to get 1/30s shutter speed at f/2.8 at an ISO of 800. This presents several problems. First, at 1/30s shutter speed, camera shake. Second, at f/2.8 I had minimal depth of field. Throw in the noise on my D300 at ISO 800 and I was quickly understanding that this was not going to be easy to pull off.
The show must go on however and I blindly (stupidly?) trudged forward. After getting a comfortable baseline for the groups shots after the ceremony, I sent my wife down to gamble (the wedding was held at a local casino). I started taking some filler shots. What’s a filler shot? I wanted to document some of the finer details that most people might not have the time to pay attention to so I grabbed my macro lens and proceeded to gather as much detail as I could. I then swapped to my fisheye and grabbed a few frames of the environment as a whole. Finally, I stepped outside and fired off a few shots of the exterior – it couldn’t hurt right? It was starting to get close to the ceremony so I headed back to the event center and started to get mentally prepared.
About 15 minutes before the ceremony, I made my second troubling realization of the night – there wasn’t enough light for auto-focus to work reliably. This one concerned me – quite a bit – because you can fix a lot of things in Photoshop but you can’t make a blurry picture look like it’s not blurry. And since I rely on my camera’s auto-focus about 99.999% of the time, well, lets just say I noticed that my palms started sweating just a bit. As I mentioned previously, going in I was hoping to be able to shoot at f/5.6 from a distance of 20 feet. With those settings I guessed I would have had about 2 feet of depth of field – plenty for close enough to be good enough. At f/2.8 though? I would be lucky to have a foot depth of field – maybe less. Needless to say, I was starting to second guess whether or not I would be able to pull this off but there were no other options available so I just had to suck it up and make the best of the situation.
The next thirty minutes were a blur. I rattled off over 400 shots and this is where all the hard work and practice of the previous five years paid off. I would check my LCD and histogram every 30 seconds and make sure I was at least “close” to a good exposure. Frequently I had to make changes on the fly and knowing exactly what change needed to be made, which buttons to push and to what degree to push them really paid off. I expected that a lot of the images I was getting were going to be junk, but I also knew I was going to have a handful – maybe more if I was lucky – that I would be able to work with. As for the ceremony itself? I’m sure it was lovely. I’ll have to confirm that with my wife. I was too busy trying to document the proceedings to be able to pay attention to what was happening around me.
After the ceremony finished, we ran through some traditional wedding shots. Finally, I was presented with something that wasn’t a Tim Wakefield knuckleball! The standard group shots went more or less as expected and they turned out OK – but really a little uninspired and boring if you ask my opinion. Needless to say, this is a wedding and people expect to see the group shots. I took a moment to catch my breath because I knew I had a few more difficult spots ahead of me.
I planned on making a wedding book for my friends and I had in my mind the cover and back cover shots that I wanted to capture, so I asked Jessica and Joseph to step out into the hall to grab those shots. Much to my chagrin the bride and groom were feeling it and we ended up spending close to an hour getting different shots and poses all over the casino! That last statement could be misconstrued. Don’t get me wrong, I was unhappy to be doing it, I was mentally going through all of the things that could go wrong and how was I going to overcome that. Thankfully, my wife came along and she took care of some of the minutia while I was able to concentrate on making the image. What is the minutia? The little things like making sure the brides hair is acceptable, getting lint off the grooms coat, pointing out the crappy background we were shooting against. Without her help, the images would have been a lot worse.
Finally, the reception. This was actually the most uneventful part of the evening. Sure there were some shots I had hoped to get during the reception, but logistics weren’t going to allow me to get them so I had to let it go. I for one was a little bit happy to have a break in the action.
Fast forward about two hours. As I moved the files off my memory cards and on to my computer, one of the memory cards threw an error during the process. Oh No! I’m not sure if I had a heart attack but I certainly know I panicked. It’s times like these I’m glad I’m an IT geek. I tried a couple of things and was able to get all of the images copied (and backed up). It was at this point that I realized that I had shot over 950 images in a 3 hour period. It was already 1AM in the morning so I wasn’t going to process them but I just had to browse through them and see how much work I had ahead of me post-processing. There were some real winners and some real losers. I ended up with over 100 solid images to work with. Only a 10% success rate but any photographer will tell you, a 10% success rate – especially at a one of a kind event like a wedding – is actually really acceptable.
What do I take away from this? For one, a whole new appreciation for wedding photographers! I expected a lot of hard work and a good deal of stress but this exceeded my expectations going in by quite a lot. Second, I didn’t understand why/how wedding photographers charge so much – but now I do! It was hard work. If you’re thinking about getting married and want to hire a professional photographer – pay the man (or woman) – they deserve every cent they charge. Third, I’m not always one for bigger, faster, better gear but I would have really appreciated a nifty fifty for this. An f/1.4 50mm lens would have been a godsend. Those two extra stops of light would have saved me hours in post-processing time – more than paying for the $439 price tag. My final realization from this? I have zero interest in becoming a professional wedding photographer. I’m thoroughly grateful for being given this opportunity. It’s just not for me. Please don’t interpret that to assume it was a miserable experience – it truly was an honor and a privilege, I got to help my friends out and I had a great time doing it. (just don’t expect me to say “yes” if you ask me to do it again) =)

Jessica and Joseph Majzoub – The Gallery